It might sound a bit of theoretical blabber but what I am trying to suggest here is something like the contemplation that one does before committing suicide. Just go through that long train on events (sad and happy) that are destined to come in the near future and ask yourself if you are you ready for them? Whatever you decide, do not forget to think and think and think. Read the following quote from Charles Bukowski– Its insightful.
If you’re going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don’t even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing on a park bench. It could mean jail. It could mean derision. It could mean mockery – isolation. Isolation is the gift. All the others are a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to do it. And, you’ll do it, despite rejection and the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. If you’re going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will be alone with the gods, and the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It’s the only good fight there is.
If you have chosen to chase or if you have decided to let go the chase- Euphoria is still there. The feeling of your love being reciprocated is rewarding, but the whole point here was about the end. If you are one of those adventurers who take things as they come- move on.
But, if you are one of those careful thinkers who go deep into seclusion when broken, than its better you decide to give up the chase. You will still enjoy euphoria. Remember numbness is also a variant of euphoria- it makes you more kind to people around you, people who care for you. It stings, tries to kill you and the continuous pain helps you in translating the pangs of those around you- which you had otherwise been neglecting. Keep on cherishing the feeling of the loss till the after-glow lasts.
Its important to realize when its over and when its time to let go. Just let it go. Don’t be an Ass!
A Synopsis Comment from a Friend
“enjoy love while its floating, and remember it will fade away someday and you should be ready to let it go when it disappears. Else that very euphoria of love might lead you towards adverse consequences!”
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